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April 12

奥斯卡

1、《Casablanca卡撒布兰卡、北非谍影》
2、《The Godfather 教父》
3、《Gone With The Wind乱世佳人》
4、《Lawrence Of Arabia阿拉伯的劳伦斯》
5、《The Wizard Of OZ绿野仙踪、奥滋国历险记》
6、《Psycho精神病人》
7、《One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest飞越疯人院》
8、《2001: A Space Odyssey 2001环游太空》
9、《Taxi Driver出租汽车司机》
10、《The Sound Of Music音乐之声》
11、《Patton巴顿将军》
12、《Silence Of The Lambs沉默的羔羊》
13、《Platoon野战排》
14、《Pulp Fiction低俗小说》
15、《异形 Aliens》
16、《离开拉斯维加斯 Leaving Las Vegas》
17、《Terminator 2: Judgment Day终结者2:世界末日》
18、《普通嫌疑犯 The Usual Suspects》
19、《七宗罪 Seven》
20、《肖申克的救赎 The Shawshank Redemption月黑高飞,刺激1995》
21、《Forrest Gump阿甘正传》
22、《燃情岁月 Legends Of The Fall》
23、《泰坦尼克号 Titanic》
值得一提的是,本片荣获1998年奥斯卡最佳影片等11项大奖,并创造了18亿美金的累积全球票房记录, 这一记录至今无人能破。
24、《心理游戏 The Game》
25、《新娘不是我 My Best Friend's Wedding我最好朋友的婚礼》
26、《新小妇人 Little Women  (1994)》
27、《夜访吸血鬼 Interview with the Vampire》
28、《勇敢的心 Brave Heart》
29、《拯救大兵雷恩 Saving Private Ryan》
30、《老大靠边闪 Analyze This》
31、《The Matrix黑客帝国》
32、《Blade Runner银翼杀手》

董事长 总裁 首席执行官

董事长的英文是Chairman(准确的说是Chairman of the Board),总裁是President,首席执行官是Chief Executive Officer.
Chairman这个职务可能是现代公司管理层最早确定的职务之一,因为它是股东利益的最高代表,理论上讲是公司管理层所有权力的来源。
President和CEO都由Chairman任命,董事会只能由Chairman召集,非例行的股东大会一般也只能由Chairman召集(或者由股东联名呼吁召集,这要看公司章程)。既然President和CEO都是由Chairman任命的 ,理论上讲Chairman也可以随时解除他们的职务;不仅如此,Chairman可以随时解除任何人的职务,除了董事(Member of the Board)和监事(Member of the Board of Supervisors),因为董事和监事不是公司雇员,而是公司的主人和仲裁人。
Chairman, President and CEO,这三个词的关系虽然错综复杂,但我们仍然可以把握它的精神实质。简单的说,Chairman是股东利益在公司的最高代表,它不属于公司雇员的范畴,President和CEO的权力都来源于他,只有他拥有召开董事会、罢免President和CE O等最高权力,但他从来不掌握行政权力。一位Chairman如果不兼任President或CEO,就仅仅是一个礼仪职务,一个德高望重的仲裁者,一般来说是某位大股东的代表。President掌握着公司的日常行政权,既可以译成总裁,又可以译成总经理;President这个称谓包含的荣耀和地位比CEO要高,因此经常用于礼仪场合。

经典的辞职信

尊敬的___________领导: 

   天要下雨,娘要嫁人,生死有命,富贵在天。本来我想在培养我的 ______________公司里工作终老,但是生活是残酷的,巨大的生活压力迫使我抬起头来,去遥望那碧蓝的天空。这时,我多么羡慕那自由飞翔的小鸟,还有那些坐得起飞机的人啊。每个月的开头,我会满心欢喜的拿着微薄的工资去还上个月的欠债,每个月的月中,我为了省钱会努力勒紧裤带,重复性的,每个月末,生活的本色就变成了借钱和躲债。 

人比人得死。这是句俗话,但确实是亘古不变的真理。看着身边一个个兄弟都出口了,这心里跟火烧似的。看着朋友每月拿着15%的房贴,车贴,5、6百的高温费,几千几万的奖金,这心里就琢磨着,这人与人的差距咋就这么大尼? 

人生数年,弹指一挥间。是的,公司有培训计划,有培养机制,公司会尽量把每一位员工培养成为有理想,有道德,有文化,有纪律的四有新人,工资会涨的,面包会有的,可俺就看不明白,咋你们培养我就要3年5年滴,人家咋不用培养就收了俺尼,俺还有多少年来给你培养?到时候,黄花菜都凉喽。人家咋就看得起俺,给俺钱呐?龙入浅水遭虾戏,虎落平原被犬欺啊。 

佛曰:一枯一荣,皆有定数。圣经上说:欠着我的,我会记下。梁朝伟说:出来混,总归是要还的。主席说:哪里有压迫,哪里就有反抗。小平同志说:贫穷不是社会主义。电视上也说:要爽靠自己。 

因此本人因为个人原因,决定离开已经服务多年的_____________公司。请求领导批准。 




申请人: 

日期: 
March 22

我怎样才能嫁给有钱人?

《我怎样才能嫁给有钱人?》
一个年轻漂亮的美国女孩在美国一家大型网上论坛金融版上发表了这样一个问题帖《我怎样才能嫁给有钱人?》: 
  “我下面要说的都是心里话。本人25岁,非常漂亮,是那种让人惊艳的漂亮,谈吐文雅,有品位,想嫁给年薪50万美元的人。你也许会说我贪心,但在纽约,年薪100万才算是中产,本人的要求其实不高。 
  这个版上有没有年薪超过50万的人?你们都结婚了吗?我想请教各位一个问题——怎样才能嫁给你们这样的有钱人?我约会过的人中,最有钱的年薪25万, 这似乎是我的上限。要住进纽约中心公园以西的高尚住宅区,年薪25万远远不够。我是来诚心诚意请教的。有几个具体的问题:一、有钱的单身汉一般都在哪里消 磨时光?二、我应该把目标定在哪个年龄段?三、为什么有些富豪的妻子看起来相貌平平?我见过有些女孩,长相如同白开水,毫无吸引人的地方,但她们却能嫁入 豪门。而单身酒吧里那些迷死人的美女却运气不佳。四、你们怎么决定谁能做妻子,谁只能做女朋友?(我现在的目标是结婚。)” ——波尔斯女士 
下面是一个华尔街金融家的回帖: 
  “亲爱的波尔斯:我怀着极大的兴趣看完了贵帖,相信不少女士也有跟你类似的疑问。让我以一个投资专家的身份,对你的处境做一分析。我年薪超过50万,符合你的择偶标准,所以请相信我并不是在浪费大家的时间。 
  从生意人的角度来看,跟你结婚是个糟糕的经营决策,道理再明白不过,请听我解释。抛开细枝末节,你所说的其实是一笔简单的“财貌”交易:甲方提供迷人 的外表,乙方出钱,公平交易,童叟无欺。但是,这里有个致命的问题,你的美貌会消逝,但我的钱却不会无缘无故减少。事实上,我的收入很可能会逐年递增,而 你不可能一年比一年漂亮。 
  因此,从经济学的角度讲,我是增值资产,你是贬值资产,不但贬值,而且是加速贬值!你现在25,在未来的5年里,你仍可以保持窈窕的身段,俏丽的容貌,虽然每年略有退步。但美貌消逝的速度会越来越快,如果它是你仅有的资产,10年以后你的价值堪忧。 
   用华尔街术语说,每笔交易都有一个仓位,跟你交往属于“交易仓位”(trading position),一旦价值下跌就要立即抛售,而不宜长期持有——也就是你想要的婚姻。听起来很残忍,但对一件会加速贬值的物资,明智的选择是租赁,而 不是购入。年薪能超过50万的人,当然都不是傻瓜,因此我们只会跟你交往,但不会跟你结婚。所以我劝你不要苦苦寻找嫁给有钱人的秘方。 
  顺便说一句,你倒可以想办法把自己变成年薪50万的人,这比碰到一个有钱的傻瓜的胜算要大。 
  希望我的回帖能对你有帮助。如果你对‘租赁’感兴趣,请跟我联系。” ——罗波·坎贝尔(JP摩根银行多种产业投资顾问)

论调:为什么中国女人性爱不幸福 (转)

我无法去调查幸福与不幸福的比例,我相信,在中国女人的一生中,最重要的一部份就是忍受不幸福的时光。这其中有社会与历史的原因,也有个人的问题。

 

  现代中国,相对于从前,已经处在民主与自由的颠盛时期。没有哪一个朝代,能像今天这样懂得尊重与爱戴女人。我们这一代女人,应该是最幸福的一代。可并不是说,奴隶主扔给奴隶一个带肉的骨头,奴隶们就应该感到幸福与感激。男权主义,旧的传统与道德遗留的阴霾仍然笼罩在我们头顶,仍然约束着我们的心灵,使我们像离开了笼子,却仍然不敢飞翔的鸟儿,环境虽然宽广了,身体与心灵却因为长期的禁锢,变得无比沉重。 

大多数中国女人没意识到不幸福

 

  可我看到了许多女人饱经风霜,满载痛苦的心灵,迷惘,绝望的眼神,暗夜里无声的抽泣与不断滑落的泪。我看到的是一个被痛苦与苦难浸泡的“女儿国”。不幸福的阴影就像乌云压顶一样飘浮在我们城池的上空,可就在不远处的他国,却是风和日丽。

 

  幸福与不幸福之间也不过几步之遥。我们或许没有能力驱逐乌云,可我们至少有能力向着前方跨越一步!

  昨天我分析了中国民间女人面临的八大问题。这些问题中,包含了一部份不幸福的表象与原因。

  1, 家庭暴力

  2, 离婚

  3, 性骚扰

  4, 未婚妈妈

  5, 弃婴,流浪妈妈

  6, 性别岐视

  7, 外劳女工

  8, 情色就业(性工作者)

  从这些些问题中我们可以看到,民间女人所面对的三大问题:生存问题,情感与婚姻的风险,性的无礼侵犯,占有与利用。

  为什么中国的女人无法像某些发达国家的女人一样洒脱?

  因为,中国的女人要为生计奔波。中国人刚刚解决了饥饿问题,大部份中国人必须十分努力才能做到不挨饿。而中国女人与生俱来就有承担家庭责任的美德。她们从来不因为贫穷而放弃孩子与家庭。她们像男人一样,甚至比男人更坚强地承担起维持家庭生计的责任。

  当男人在外辛勤劳作的时候,她会很自觉地站到一个家庭主妇的位置,默默无闻的奉献十年,二十年,直至一辈子的光阴。

  “我们常常要为房子,孩子的学费,柴米油盐发愁,我们没有时间来考虑自己是否幸福!”

  在中国的城市与农村,我们可以看到许多这样的女人。面庞黑红,穿着过时的廉价服装,要么在城市的角落里擦皮鞋,卖玉米棒,烤红薯,做钟点工,当保姆,要么穿着光鲜的衣服,站街,做小姐。要么,就在农村的土地里,埋头耕种。

  这些女人,很多,很多……

  只是,从来没有人把她们当成女人。大多数人印象中,女人应该是漂亮的,性感的。可其实我们都忽略了,是生活的重担使她们失去了幸福的女人应该拥有的一切。

  正如麦拉所说,只有生存问题解决了,一切精神的理想之国才有可能实现。

  因此,我呼吁社会,不要在女人的生存问题上再增加负担,更不要苛刻地要求,在努力生存的女人,要做到如何高贵与优雅。当她们在这样的环境下,顽强地生存时,应该多给她一些赞美与鼓励的声音。当她为了家庭,为了孩子与丈夫,放弃了做女人的漂亮与优雅时,应该得到的是尊敬与爱戴,而不是背叛与嫌弃。

  也许跟生存的问题有关,中国女人的情感与婚姻,具有很大的风险性。生存的艰辛使女人无法独立下来,脱离男权的庇护。爱情与婚姻有时候甚至跟情感没有关系,而是一个残酷的生计问题。

  这很可悲!

  中国的许多女人都放弃了好男人和爱自己的男人,而去追逐“有钱的男人”

  生存的残酷在这一点上,体现得鲜血淋淋,她们需要金钱来给自己安全感。

  当我看到肮脏的,世俗的金钱,一次又一次战胜了美丽而神圣的爱情时,内心的无奈与伤痛,无法吞咽。

  摆在女人面前的路有两条。

  要么,你做一个不像女人的穷女人。

  整日忙于生计,无暇打扮,蓬头垢面,身材臃肿,穿着俗气,虽然为了家庭,孩子,拼尽了全力,到头来,还是被男人嫌弃,冷落。

  要么,你就做一个市侩的贱女人

  把自己的一生卖给一个自己不喜欢,可却能让自己生活无忧的男人。享受着物质的充实,忍受着心灵的空虚。可女人一生的幸福值多少钱?就这样贱卖了吗?

  我们之所以不幸福是因为我们没有更好的选择。

  虽然有着这样的两种选择,可这两种选择的结局,都不是安稳的。

  没有一个女人可以把爱情与有钱的男人永远牢固地抓在自己手上!

  当一个女人为了爱情去牺牲的时候,换来的,却会是不幸福的苦果。没有一个男人的理想,是与一个黄脸婆终日相对,白头携头。他们需要的,永远是漂亮,性感的女人。

  贫穷是相对的,漂亮需要新鲜感

  所以,每一个有钱的男人,会是许多女人争夺的对象,每一个女人的男人,都会是比她更穷的女人的猎物。

  这是一场多么可怕的战争。正是因为这样的战争,才使男人与女人的爱情或婚姻无法稳固。

  有钱的男人或相对有钱的男人身边,围着三两个,或一些蓄谋已久的女人。

  在这样的战争中,女人终于把男人变成了赚钱的机器。

  爱情则退后一步,变成了男人与女人共同的梦想。

  我不想卷入这样荒唐的战争里,我尝试着去爱一个无钱的男人。可我也被抛弃了,因为,他更需要一个有钱的女人。

November 29

移动公司老总上厕所

 

"干什么的?"看厕所的大婶喊。
"我是中国移动老总,我内急。"
"你不知道现在什么都要收费啊?"大婶。
"行,多少钱?"
"进去5毛,出来3毛。"大婶看着他。
"什么出来也要收费?"老总瞪着眼睛。
"看什么看,我们这里实行双向收费。如果你办个厕所套餐的话,就可以单向收费了。
"行,我付钱。"老总掏出十块钱。
"大便还是小便?"大婶捏住钱问。
"大便,快点。"
"恩,你需要办理套餐吗?如果你一次性大便五十次,可以给你优惠再大便三十次。"大婶说。
"别说了,我先进去,马上出来付钱。"老总进去后,选择了最后一个坑位爽了好久后出来了。
"先生,您选择的是五号坑位,得付选号费用5毛钱,你在里面呆的时候没有说不要选择放音乐,所以每次收费6毛钱。另外你在里面蹲了十五分零一秒,前一分钟按5毛每分钟计费,后面按每分钟四毛计费。不足一分钟按一分钟计费。另外由于你的排泄量占用了我们的下水道宽带,所以请你另外按包月付出费用50元。最后你可以通过小孔看到进厕所的其他人,请付来人显示费1块钱。"老总已经呆在那里。
"所以,老总先生,我们这里不刷卡,总共你要付59.4元钱,如果逾期不交纳,按每日千分之三的费用计滞纳金,我方不另行通知,到积累到千元我方将通过法律手段催缴"。
大婶刚刚说完,移动老总"扑通"一声倒在小便池里!!
移动老总迷迷糊糊的说:还有没有王法了?
大婶说:我的地盘,我做主!

November 28

A letter to a "unly' foreigner

Dear 外国鬼子,

I know you’re facing a big problem now,. As your girlfriend, I suppose to stand by your and accompany with you to pass this barrier! But since I have some tree time at my home, I just kept on thinking about your relationship throughout the whole night, my heart is really very tired now, I have to make a prompt decision right away to reduce my torment. I’m not going to argue who is right, who is wrong, just because “ love is complicated, its hard to tell and even can not make it clearly! Actually, from the period we spent together, I know your are not the one I expected for, chuks, just think it for a while, you’ll know you never try your best to make me happy, from all the time. It is me that care for you so much, and , you also leave everything on me going on. Maybe just because you didn’t know how show your love to a girl and how to care for her. I am the one always try to maintain the relationship but not you, one thing very important you have to know, it ‘s our duty, not only me. And sometime I think we don’t have any mutual understanding , you always said love is in your heart, not only talk by your month. Yes, I agree, some playboys always good at saying some sweet words and promises to their girlfriends, it ‘s fake and useless. In my opinion, love is shown by action, not always hide in your heart. I always tired my best to remember what you have done for me. And what you’ve sacrifice for me. I tried, tired, the only thing you made me feel touching is you washed my clothes during the period I was sick. No more ! what a cruel truth!

Besides, you have stayed with me for quite a long time, you suppose to know I don’t care about whether you have money or not , you are facing any problem or not, just because one thing I always keep on my mind: as long as a man love his women, he’ll try all his efforts to make money in order to let his women live a wonderful life. He’ll give her all the best he have own. If you say just  because you don’t have money or you always facing some problems, you have no time on me to make me happy; you can’t do anything for me a this moment. You are just finding excuses for yourself. I am telling the truth, even you don’t have any money, and you can only take me about for sightseeing without paying one cent,. I am the one can only ask for one stone but not diamond, every small gift you bought  I will be very happy you know it very clearly I am a girl can be satisfied easily, every little thing you have done for me I ‘ll appreciate you so much. And this is problem I have discussed with you for many ,many time. Maybe you didn’t keep it in your mind and even didn’t take it as a matter.

What you made me very disappointed is, last time you got some money from passport business. You bought everything new in your home, vcd, speakers to decorate your house, I can understand you suppose to make your home looks fine when you are having some customers come from your country, I don’t mind how ,much you spent on it, I thought you’ll buy some something, no matter how cheap it is, even a pair of earring under RMB 10, I will take it as precious gift,. I just wait, wait, kept on waiting. But none! I just kept silent by that time, it’s your time to do something to develop our relationship, however, forget about whether you have try all your best to maintain it or not, you even didn’t try for it, that is why we always quarrel, and I also talked with your before, if you can just change a little, all the situation will be change, but you never want to adjust tom me , even a little. During the period we quarrelling , I even can’t remind my self your good ness t o persuade me to stop it, I don’t know why I ‘m so stupid like that follow a man doesn’t love me by his heart, the only reason is your are the first one step to my heart, close to my heat, open the window of my heart and you are the first one I fall in love with. I really show all my love on you. Maybe it’s also the reason you don’t care about me . Because you know me very well, no matter how you treat me. I’ll not say no to you but continue loving you. One thing you suppose to know, once we Chinese fall in love with somebody, they prefer to keep and develop the relationship but not to stop and destroy it. That ‘s what make me try to continue with you and I don’t want the love I have spent on somebody then be destroy easily. However, it’s you that force me to make this decision and I am not willing to make.

And I’m going to show you one fact about why I think you don’t care for me. Do you still remember that raining day? I forgot my umbrella in your home then went to the office, tit was raining heavily in the afternoon. I think ed you may go out to meet somebody for your passport business, and I also remember you always go out without umbrella, I really worry about you’ll be beaten by the heavy rain. So I called you to remind you to take it with you, you just told me you were with my umbrella, asked me don’t worry ! you made me very disappointed. Why? Why? I am the one always worry about you ,care about you .you will never keep me in your heart!

This little matter showed your heart clearly, by that time, I just told myself definitely, that man doesn’t care for me ! that night I didn’t say anything about it. I don’t want to provoke you when you are in troo7uble. And that why I drink beer, I want to forget about it with alcohol. Since we always have problem, I got much more thinner and thinner, just because of you, I really want to be fat. So that when my mother see me , she’ll not worry about me when I am not with her.

And what made me very upset is ,I just told you my decision tonight, you keep on calling me and remind me don’t disturb your next girlfriend. I am really unhappy about that, you want to show your respect to her, but why you never did it for me before!

Anyway, you were my sunshine when I was in dark, it was you that helped out from the helpless situation, before, I really took you as my only relative in Guangzhou, you real helped me a lot. You are intelligent. I learned so much from you, you are my adviser before. Every little thing I don’t know how to do, you will be there for me ! I really appreciated about that ! without you, I lost my only relative in Guangzhou, I lost my right hand! But please don’t  worry, I will be ok soon! I will not keep on crying about.

I m in my office listening to the music “ the power of love” and I still remember one night, I sany for you “ because I am your lady and you are my man “ , but not any more!

I must stop writing now, I am afraid my tears will run out as the running water! And just remember my face when I am smiling but not crying.

Goodbye, my love!

Yours,

中国女孩

November 27

Facial Design

Chinese opera performers mainly have two methods of makeup: masks and facial painting. The frequent on-stage change of masks, without the audience noticing, is a special technique, known as changing faces. Opera facial painting falls into four main categories -- personality makeup (facial designs, painted faces or Lian Pu), decorative makeup (decorated faces), mood makeup (changing facial designs), and pictographic makeup (animal-like facial designs).

 Lian Pu

Personality makeup, or Lian Pu, refers to facial designs for Jing and Chou roles. It originated from daily life experience, describing such changes of expression as white for fear, red for shyness, dark for suntan, and sallow for illness. Most facial designs attach great importance to the eyes and eyebrows. Lian Pu has formed a complete
system, such as the facial designs of Peking Opera.
 
Red, yellow, white, black, purple, green and silver are the main colors used for facial designs to represent different characters. For instance, red stands for loyal, courageous and upright people; white for

sinister and cunning officials; and golden and silvery colors for gods and ghosts.
The facial designs for the Jing roles are made by painting, powdering and coloring in the basic forms of Zheng Lian (keeping the basic face pattern), San Kuai Wa Lian (three-section face) and Sui Lian (fragmentary face). These types are widely used to represent generals, officials, heroes, gods and ghosts.
The Chou actors can be recognized by the patch of white in various shapes (cube-, date pit-or bat-shaped) painted around the eyes and nose. Sometimes these patches are outlined in black, hence the term Xiao Hua Lian (partly painted face). The Chou roles fall into the following two categories: Wen Chou (civil) and Wu Chou (martial).  

 未命名

 

京剧脸谱
脸谱是京剧的一种表演手段,脸谱历史很悠久。
脸谱来源于生活:生活上常常形容人的脸色的变化,比如说:吓得煞白,臊得通红,晒得漆黑,生病的人形容脸色蜡黄等等。脸谱就是把这种夸张的说法,再用夸张的手法画在脸上。用来描写人物的正直、刚烈。常常画红脸,比如关羽。奸险狡诈之人如曹操,常画白脸,而铁面无私的包公形象则用黑脸来代表,等等。各种人物的脸谱有一定的规矩,这些在京剧中把脸上勾勒出形象,称之为脸谱。脸谱是京剧的一种表演手段,脸谱历史很悠久。 

Chinese Zodiac (The 12 Animal Signs)

Written by SsM   

 

More than 30,000 years ago, Chinese ancestors invented the 10 Tian Gan(or heavenly stems)and 12 Di Zhi(or 12 earthly branches) for chronological purpose. Later,people used 12 animals to symbolize the 12 earthly branches in order to make things easier to memorize and the animals in order are the mouse, ox, tiger, rabbit,dragon,snake, horse, sheep, monkey, rooster,dog and pig.

You might found out that many Chinese people strongly believe that the time of a person's birth is primary factor in determining that person's characteristics.According to one legend, Buddha invited all the animals to his kingdom, but unfortunately, only a total of 12 turned up, the mouse was naturally the first, followed by the ox, then tiger, the rabbit and so on. Out of gratitude, Buddha decided to name the year after each of the animals in their order of arrival. It is essential in China that every person knows which animal sign he is born under and most of Chinese truly believe that the signs reveal the hidden secrets of a person's character.   1179915466(1)

 
 

十二生肖:

3万多年前,中国的祖先发明了10天干和12地支(按时间顺序排列)。后来,人们为了方便记忆,用12种动物代表12地支,动物的排序为:子鼠、丑牛、寅虎、卯兔、辰龙、巳蛇、午马、未羊、申猴、酉鸡、戌狗、亥猪等。   你可能会发现中国人特别相信出生年月是决定性格特征的主要因素。根据传说,佛曾邀请所有动物来他的国土上聚会,但遗憾的是,只有12个动物来了,老鼠自然是第一位,接下来是牛、然后是虎,后来是兔子等等。出于感激,佛决定按动物们到的先后次序命名年份。在中国每个人都知道自己的属相是最基本的事,而且大多数的中国人确信属相可以揭示人的性格秘密。

Last Updated ( Monday, 26 November 2007 )